It Could Be All Your Fault

Most people get angry when I suggest that it might be their fault that their last relationship ended. I understand completely. It is so much easier to blame someone else. But I am not the person that is going to coddle you or sit around and bash your ex lover. My sister recently attacked me when I tried to help her see the things that she did that may have damaged her last relationship. She actually said "you would never tell a client it was their fault!" I corrected her and said, "actually that is exactly what I do." If you are ready to face the truth keep reading. We often create exactly what we fear! This may sound a bit confusing but follow these examples. My neighbor Tommy is a 13 year old boy. He fears kids won't like him so he is always trying to brag and one up...

Have You Ever Had Sex Too Soon?

Women who have sex with men they are not in committed relationships with are often getting dumped and don't understand why! I am all for casual, great sex. But if you are looking for a commitment and can't understand what is going wrong this just might be it! I hear so many women say that they are afraid to ask for a commitment because they don't want to scare the guys away. But they send the guys running because these guys don't want a girl willing to accept casual sex! Basically their fear is losing the guy and that is exactly what they create in the end. Here are a few tips to try if you think having sex too soon is the real issue...

Match to Mystery

Have you ever chatted with a guy on match and everything seemed to be going so well? You make a date for the upcoming weekend and you are really excited to have connected with what seems to be a normal guy. The weekend approaches and the guy doesn’t confirm the date. He actually seems to have disappeared off the face of the planet. You check his match profile and it says he is online now. What the heck happened? The only way to know exactly what happened is for us to sit down and dissect your beliefs, dating habits and behavior. But I certainly can speculate and shed some light on this for you. I have to warn you that this is another brutally honest blog. Please don’t be offended as I find my clients get better results when I’m brutally honest. Most likely he was talking to multiple women and...

You Might be Crazy?

I know this may offend many women but I am willing to take the risk. We often hear guys say things like: She’s nuts. They are all crazy you just need to find the crazy you can deal with. She is hot until she opens her mouth. These are the common things that most men complain about. So my challenge to the ladies is to think about whether or not you are nuts. I really don’t like the words “nuts” and “crazy” but because these are the words so many guys use I think we need to stick with them. Here of some examples of what men would qualify as nuts. Jill asks her husband how her new jeans look. He simply replies “fine”. Jill yells at him and gets upset that he didn’t offer her more of a reaction. Imagine if her husband told her that he really thought the jeans made her look...

How Can I Meet “Normal” Singles?

I know it can be frustrating trying to meet other singles. But on the bright side I can assure you that there are many! I know this because I have over 2000 singles in my database and I can’t imagine I have found every single guy and girl out there. I understand internet dating and speed dating aren’t for everyone. So I promise no dirty sales pitching in this blog. Many of you want it to happen naturally. Sometimes we have to push nature just a little bit. And that might mean just getting up and getting out the door. Here are my best tips to push the process and help you meet your match a little more naturally. Find the events-It is summer time and so many parks have great outdoor concerts http://www.elizabethpark.org/summer-concert-series-2013.htm. The local museums are starting to offer some great events too https://got5minutes.com/register/?event_id=222  . Another favorite that so many...

Can You Really Deal With What They Are Thinking?

There are times when the one you are dating finds you annoying, unattractive or just a complete turn off! Sure we all have our off days. We are human! We wake up with bad breath, fluctuate in our weight, have bad hair days, body odor and moody dramatic moments. Perhaps the dress we thought was hot doesn’t work anymore or the new lipstick makes us look cheesy. Or perhaps it is just a turn off to that one person that we love. What do you really want them to do? Please don’t respond to the question by saying that they should just love you for you. This is ridiculous and a complete cop out! If your significant other is turned off then this is a chemistry thing. And chemistry is real. We can’t control the things that turn us on and off no matter how hard we try! There are two options...

Which is Better for you…Speed or Internet Dating?

Speed Dating Versus Internet Dating It is a great time to be single! I know those of you who feel like you have been single forever just want to scream at me right now. But what I am saying is that there are so many terrific ways to meet singles these days. You no longer have to rely on your parents to find you a match, hang out at crowded bars or experience painful blind dates. Two very popular ways to find that special person are internet dating and speed dating. I am often asked, “which one is better?” They are both terrific ways to meet people! In fact, I met my husband on match.com 10 years ago! Today 1 out of every 5 couples meet online and that number is only going to get bigger. If you are one of the many people trying to decide which one will work best for...

Who Pays?

Whoever makes the date is typically responsible for paying. Now we all know that traditionally the guy asks the girl out on the first date and that would mean that he should pay. But if you are a single guy this can get pricy in today’s economy. It can be especially expensive for those dads who are paying child support, alimony and saving for college tuitions. So here are a few ground rules to help make dating both fun and affordable! If it is a first date you should never have to drop $80 on a dinner when you don’t even know if the two of you have chemistry! Take her out for a coffee or an ice cream. I always call these milk shake-hand shake dates. This way you drop $10 and there is no pressure on anyone! If the chemistry is mutual and she seems interested in seeing you again, then...

Dating Scene During Hurricane Irene

As long as your electricity is still running you have no excuses not get online and visit those internet dating sites. So many singles in the hurricane are trapped inside for endless hours while waiting for the hurricane to pass. And I can assure you that so many of these singles will be browsing the internet dating sites. So here are a few tips to help you make the most of it! 1. Don't listen to those negative friends that try convince you that those sites never work! Just because they don't work for your negative friends doesn't mean they won't work for you. I personally met my second husband on match.com 10 years ago. So trust me, they do work! 2. Be careful of those free sites. You get what you pay for and if it is free you will likely find more singles that are not as serious about dating...



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