Ever Date This Type of Guy?

Ladies Have you Ever Dated a Guy Who… Asks you out but seems to be completely unavailable between dates? Invites you to meet him at a restaurant but isn’t clear as to whether it means dinner or drinks? Says he will call you Friday to confirm the date and when you give in and text him on Saturday he acts like it was already confirmed?  Seems interested but the relationship doesn’t seem to be escalating? If you find yourself dating this ambivalent type of guy I imagine you are pretty annoyed! You are excited that he offers to call a day ahead to confirm the date and wait anxiously for the call. Down deep you wonder why he can’t just text or say hello to you prior to the confirmation but you have rationalized this in your head. You create some ridiculous notion that he is busy with the kids or taking it slow. Friday...

Why Does Match Work For So Many But Not ME!!

Why Does Match Work for Some and Not Me? Most are going to tell you that this is because your profile looks like crap and it needs a makeover. Now for some this is a simple solution. But I think that the profile that you created is reflection of who you are, how you see yourself and what you believe you deserve. If you are wearing a sexy bikini in your picture (and you are not at the beach) you will likely attract men that are mostly thinking about having sex with you. If your profile shares too much about a past relationship that was awful you will most likely attract someone who is co-dependent and wants to rescue you (not very sexy after a while). If you are constantly bragging about yourself you will attract those who are vulnerable and naïve and believe whatever you bragged about was important. When in...

Misplacing your Underwear-Great Way to Flirt

Well in most cases married couples claim they are too old, tired, comfortable or disinterested to flirt with their spouse! These couples couldn't be making a bigger mistake. Even if it feels forced initially flirting is a very important part of keeping your marriage fresh, happy and exciting. It let's your spouse know that you still find them appealing, desirable and interesting. And best of all there is a great reward with no financial investment required. So if you haven't flirted with your spouse in a while pick your favorite from the list below or better yet pick the whole list! 1. Ladies if you do the laundry switch things up once in a while. Take your sexiest pair of underwear and accidentally or not so accidentally put them in your spouses drawer with his socks and boxers. He is sure to blush when he picks them up. 2. After a hot shower the...

What I learned in High School about Valentines Day!

Stoughton High School back in the 80’s holds both good and bad memories for me. The worst came from that dreaded February 14! Some brilliant school personnel or PTO mom came up with the idea to have these young teens purchase  roses to be delivered to someone they had a crush on. We all waited patiently in or boring classes for the knock on the door. A student would enter the room with a big white box of roses. She would eagerly call out the names of the girls who received a rose and each would run up blushing and smiling as they read who it was from. In all 4 years of high school I never got up to claim that rose. First let me tell you this whole concept is ridiculous! Why would the school even consider trying to teach these students that crushes, dating and love are valuable...

High Sex Drive? Jumping in to Bed too Soon?

I hear it all the time! Women are becoming more and more aggressive sexually and more often than not men are getting turned off! This doesn’t necessarily mean that they are so turned off that they kick you out of bed…But they are typically turned off enough that they don’t call you back the next day. I understand that sex feels great and you deserve to have it and enjoy every minute of it! So if all you want is a roll in the hay then no need to read on. But if you are actually seeking a long term relationship where sex is one of the many benefits then you need to hold off for just a minute. Try some of these tips on those first few dates and you will be just fine! Where the Granny Panties! The one sure way you won’t let a guy in your pants...

Do You Run Here Often?

So you are on the treadmill and someone very cute hops on the bike right beside you. Do you say hello? Or just stay continue reading your magazine with your head set on? So many people have made that popular resolution to hit the gym more and get back in shape. It is the perfect resolution for someone who is single! First of all looking and feeling your best will always make you more desirable in the dating arena. But it is also a terrific place  to find that perfect connection. I know many are thinking it sounds great in theory but how do you actually initiate a discussion with someone at the gym? I just happen to have a few great tips for you today! 1. First you have to get off the couch and go to the gym! 2. Look cute but not like you are trying to look cute. In...

Quickest Way to Find Love!

New Years has just passed us by and Valentines Day will be creeping up in no time! Yet so many singles can't figure out just how to find that perfect match. Online dating is on the rise and so many, including myself have had great success with this. But others fear this exciting way to find love. Many imagine their potential suitor won't look like their picture or will just lack that instant connection. I remember my many first match.com dates. I was either thinking…Oh please let this be him or oh no please don’t let this be him. Those who have tried internet dating understand exactly where I am coming from! Although I have endless tips on how to make online dating work for you I respect your decision to avoid it at all costs. But speed dating solves a lot of these problems! Speed dating allows you to find out...

Quickest Ways to Ruin the Dinner Date!

The majority of early dates take place in a restaurant. And despite my constant advice about first dates being quick ice cream or coffee dates, many of you still choose that restaurant! I understand you are hopeful that there will be a connection and you want more time together. So go ahead pick your favorite restaurant and best of luck! Oh and remember if you don’t like your date and want to avoid telling them outright, just do one of the things on the list below and I can guarantee you they will never want to see you again either!  Here is my list! Feel free to add yours in the comments!                                                                                    ...

Is Amanda Knox hated for her Sexual Openness?

Is Amanda Knox hated for her Sexual Comfort? I have followed the Amanda Knox case in the same way that my husband follows hockey, perhaps even more deeply! I actually cried when the verdict was read and I don’t know that my husband cried when his team (The Vancouver Canucks) lost the Stanley Cup. I have seen the media manipulate cases for many years. It has always been an infatuation of mine. It began with Pamela Smart 20 years ago and continued through the Amanda Knox case today. Although I believe Pamela was completely innocent of the murder of her husband it was easier for me to wrap my arms around why people hated her so much. She admits and regrets an affair she had 20 years ago with her 15 year old student who later murdered her husband. Those of us with sons (and even those without) agree that this behavior...

Cheating??

The big question lately is whether or not an internet relationship is considered cheating. I don’t know if a divorce court judge would call this infidelity, but I sure would. Any time someone in a marriage is having a relationship that is being kept a secret and could potentially harm the relationship than it is cheating, as far as I am concerned. Imagine what could happen if we didn’t consider this cheating? I truly believe that there are plenty happy, faithful relationships in this world but I understand with all that is happening in the media that many are starting to doubt this. The truth is that if you get married in this lifetime you are going to marry one of 3 types of men. You may not figure out which type you actually married for a long time. But eventually the truth will be revealed. Now I know most married...