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It Could Be All Your Fault

Most people get angry when I suggest that it might be their fault that their last relationship ended. I understand completely. It is so much easier to blame someone else. But I am not the person that is going to coddle you or sit around and bash your ex lover. My sister recently attacked me when I tried to help her see the things that she did that may have damaged her last relationship. She actually said "you would never tell a client it was their fault!" I corrected her and said, "actually that is exactly what I do." If you are ready to face the truth keep reading. We often create exactly what we fear! This may sound a bit confusing but follow these examples. My neighbor Tommy is a 13 year old boy. He fears kids won't like him so he is always trying to brag and one up...

March 4, 2014
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Have You Ever Had Sex Too Soon?

Women who have sex with men they are not in committed relationships with are often getting dumped and don't understand why! I am all for casual, great sex. But if you are looking for a commitment and can't understand what is going wrong this just might be it! I hear so many women say that they are afraid to ask for a commitment because they don't want to scare the guys away. But they send the guys running because these guys don't want a girl willing to accept casual sex! Basically their fear is losing the guy and that is exactly what they create in the end. Here are a few tips to try if you think having sex too soon is the real issue...

February 27, 2014
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Five Things That Will Move You Closer to Finding Love!

Next time you are in a store start a conversation with a random person. It could be in the deli line, produce section or checkout line. Seriously sometimes we are standing next to someone for 15 minutes and we don’t even acknowledge their existence. Try it once and you will see it can make the moment more interesting for everyone. Once you realize how easy this is you will be more comfortable starting random conversations with more and more people! The more people you know the better your chances are that you will meet someone that you are interested in dating. Change your search criteria on match.com. If you could meet an amazing guy that has a super successful business but didn’t finish college 31 years ago would that really matter? Or perhaps there is a girl that considers her figure to be curvy. She might be in great shape yet...

December 15, 2013
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Why Would You Ever Post That Pic?

If you have bad internet dating profile pictures this is sure to help you. If you are viewing really bad profiles pictures this is sure to make you laugh. Here are my top five tips on the subject. 1. If the picture isn’t within the year ask yourself these questions… Am I so delusional that I actually think I still look like this? Do I fear rejection so badly that I think I will pretend this is me just to get a date? Do I actually think she won’t notice that I am completely bald in real life and have a full head of hair in my pictures? If you fear the rejection I can promise you that you will still get rejected. The rejection will just take place after you dropped $60 on dinner and the girl pulls away at the kiss. Just be honest with yourself. If you don’t like it change it!...

November 11, 2013
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My One and Only One Night Stand

Sex Too Soon! I am all for great sex. And ladies if you can have a casual fling and feel no emotional attachment, rejection issues or loneliness go for it. But be honest with yourself. Are you having sex because you think it is all you can get? Are you having sex because you believe if you are good he will stick around? Or are you really just in it for the sex and have no other needs? Personally I think the majority of women have sex because they want more. I am going to share the one story where I had sex too soon. Yes it is true there was only one. I was in high school and chased Jimmy for my entire high school career. I was careful never to actually have sex with him. My mother was smart to put the fear of STD’s and pregnancy in my head the...

September 23, 2013
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Why We Stay in Miserable Relationships!

I was sitting in the sauna at LA fitness today when a woman asked me if I was the Date Doctor on 96.5 TIC. I told her I was and proceeded to hear about her friend’s marriage. Her friend is clearly miserable, knows the passion has died but can’t walk away. She asked me point blank why her friend stays. People stay in wrong relationships all the time! Why? These are the most common reasons why they stay. Feel free to add your experiences in the comments. She is afraid to be alone. Some women will express complete dread at the thought of starting over. My advice is to tell that friend to stop imaging being alone and start imaging having sex with some hot new boyfriend for the first time. Imagine kissing someone that you can’t keep your hands off. Imagine hearing the garage door open and not cringing because your...

March 30, 2013
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Opposites Attract But Will They Drive Each Other Nuts?

Opposites can attract. Seriously, I don’t want a guy that shares my interests! Anyone that wants to needle point, scrap book or take a Zumba class is just not the guy’s guy that I desire! You don’t need shared interests, aligned political views or even like the same TV shows! In fact I love lying in bed watching Parenthood while my husband is in the den watching hockey. But not all opposites mesh quite so well! Here are a few that don’t and some tips to make it work! Opposite spending habits. When you have a compulsive shopaholic dating a penny pincher it will often lead to stress, arguments and potential lies. I remember my mother used to tell my father that every outfit she bought was 1/2 the price that it really was. My Dad picked up on this began doubling the price she told him. At that point my...

March 29, 2013
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I Love You? Or Not?

Some men just don’t say it! I can give you a few reasons why but I am not sure how much it matters? They associate “love” with a negative feeling or experience. The last woman they loved may have cheated, lied, sexually neglected or emasculated them. They have a belief that “love” entraps them into commitments that they are not ready to make. They simply don’t love you and are just sticking around because the sex is good and they haven’t found anything better. They grew up in a house where the word “love” was taboo. They believe that if they don’t say the words “I love you” they are protected from ever experiencing the emotions and negative experiences that come with being in love. To The Women Dating These Guys: Walk away ladies. Unless you grew up in a home where love was taboo or any of the above excuses apply to you. Being with a...

February 8, 2013
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