Have You Ever Had Sex Too Soon?

Women who have sex with men they are not in committed relationships with are often getting dumped and don't understand why! I am all for casual, great sex. But if you are looking for a commitment and can't understand what is going wrong this just might be it! I hear so many women say that they are afraid to ask for a commitment because they don't want to scare the guys away. But they send the guys running because these guys don't want a girl willing to accept casual sex! Basically their fear is losing the guy and that is exactly what they create in the end. Here are a few tips to try if you think having sex too soon is the real issue...

Why Does Match Work For So Many But Not ME!!

Why Does Match Work for Some and Not Me? Most are going to tell you that this is because your profile looks like crap and it needs a makeover. Now for some this is a simple solution. But I think that the profile that you created is reflection of who you are, how you see yourself and what you believe you deserve. If you are wearing a sexy bikini in your picture (and you are not at the beach) you will likely attract men that are mostly thinking about having sex with you. If your profile shares too much about a past relationship that was awful you will most likely attract someone who is co-dependent and wants to rescue you (not very sexy after a while). If you are constantly bragging about yourself you will attract those who are vulnerable and naïve and believe whatever you bragged about was important. When in...

Do You Run Here Often?

So you are on the treadmill and someone very cute hops on the bike right beside you. Do you say hello? Or just stay continue reading your magazine with your head set on? So many people have made that popular resolution to hit the gym more and get back in shape. It is the perfect resolution for someone who is single! First of all looking and feeling your best will always make you more desirable in the dating arena. But it is also a terrific place  to find that perfect connection. I know many are thinking it sounds great in theory but how do you actually initiate a discussion with someone at the gym? I just happen to have a few great tips for you today! 1. First you have to get off the couch and go to the gym! 2. Look cute but not like you are trying to look cute. In...

Can You Really Deal With What They Are Thinking?

There are times when the one you are dating finds you annoying, unattractive or just a complete turn off! Sure we all have our off days. We are human! We wake up with bad breath, fluctuate in our weight, have bad hair days, body odor and moody dramatic moments. Perhaps the dress we thought was hot doesn’t work anymore or the new lipstick makes us look cheesy. Or perhaps it is just a turn off to that one person that we love. What do you really want them to do? Please don’t respond to the question by saying that they should just love you for you. This is ridiculous and a complete cop out! If your significant other is turned off then this is a chemistry thing. And chemistry is real. We can’t control the things that turn us on and off no matter how hard we try! There are two options...

I thought for sure this one would call?

Dear Date Doctor, It makes no sense! We had a terrific date. We laughed, he was very affectionate and we had a great kiss good night. I drove home with the biggest smile on my face. Once again I was sure he would call and once again he didn't. Could you explain this concept to me PLEASE! Waiting Dear Waiting, First of all please don't ever wait for a guy to call. If it is really tearing you up, make the call! Make it quick and don't complain or freak out. Just say hello and see what happens. If he doesn't call you back then you need to move on. But at least you will know one way or the other. Guys are a bit funny when it comes to dating. Ladies can't hide when they are not that into a guy. It is so obvious from the moment they meet. The signs are...

Son of The Date Doctor on Facebook

Matthew just had his 11th birthday! He is into many things including facebook. I look over his shoulder as he chats with one particular girl we will call Jill (only because Matt will not be happy if I use her real name). I keep chiming in with my dating tips and realize it is no easy task to be the son of the Date Doctor. And I remind myself he is 11! I should just let him be a silly kid. But still the tips seem to jump out of my mouth. The first 2 were especially for Matt but you should follow them as well. And the rest would be true for anyone who is both dating and on facebook. 1. When you log in, wait a minute before jumping on the chat. You may be excited to type "hey" in that little box in the bottom right hand...