I thought for sure this one would call?
Dear Date Doctor,
It makes no sense! We had a terrific date. We laughed, he was very affectionate and we had a great kiss good night. I drove home with the biggest smile on my face. Once again I was sure he would call and once again he didn’t. Could you explain this concept to me PLEASE!
First of all please don’t ever wait for a guy to call. If it is really tearing you up, make the call! Make it quick and don’t complain or freak out. Just say hello and see what happens. If he doesn’t call you back then you need to move on. But at least you will know one way or the other. Guys are a bit funny when it comes to dating. Ladies can’t hide when they are not that into a guy. It is so obvious from the moment they meet. The signs are there and if the guy chooses to pay attention to these signs he will know there won’t be a call or another date. Men are often a bit different. Even if they know you are not the one, they can still have a great time. If you are cute and somewhat entertaining they can make the most of it. You may even get a great kiss good night and feel what seems to be a mutual chemistry. I hear so many women experience the same exact thing. Nothing went wrong and yet no call. It simply means you just weren’t the one for them. At least not at this time. You may never know what exactly it was. Perhaps just a lack of chemistry, or he may be dating other women. It doesn’t really matter. If you are looking for someone that is ready for a great relationship and you are tired of games you need to move on. Perhaps down the road this guy will turn up again. And maybe he will be in a different place. But just don’t waste time waiting anymore.