Ever dated a someone that just started treating you like crap because they were hoping you would do the break up? Or perhaps you just started treating someone poorly because you couldn’t seem to fiigure out how to end that relationship? Whatever the situation is we have all been dumped or dumped someone at some point. It stings like a bee and hurts so badly for a few days, ok sometimes even weeks! I am not talking about long term marriages but those relationships that linger on for many months and seem to get worse and worse. We rationalize staying, hoping it will get better. And we end up dumped and needing to move on. Here are some tips on how to get over this and get over it fast!
1. Come on, there are a million things that this person did that drove you nuts! Everytime you think of a happy moment and miss him, replace that thought with an annoying, miserable one. Force yourself to think of the worst memoires.
2. Remember an earlier break up that you thought you would never get over. Think about how insignificant that is in your life today. And remind yourself this too will be another one of those insignifcant events as time passes.
3. Get back out there and start flirting! And if you want to just lie in bed and bury yourself in pity, think about what he is doing. Is he lieing in bed or is he out trying to move on? Life is short and you deserve to feel better! Don’t jump into the next relationship but flirt and feel great!
And my final tip is… Don’t ever let one jerk convince you that you should quit dating all together. No one person should have that much power over you. If you really want to find love than you will! But you need to believe you deserve it and never give up!