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What are you Thinking?

[vc_row animate_rounded_tab="yes"][vc_column][vc_column_text] I would love to know exactly what you were thinking about before you stumbled onto this blog? Perhaps it was a happy thought? Perhaps not? Very many people have a tendency to think negative thoughts. Basically this means that your subconscious mind has a bad habit of thinking about things that bring you down. It is used to repeating things like, you are not good enough, you should feel guilty, what if you screwed something up? What you think can almost feel like it is not in your control. But the good news is that it absolutely is in your control! Step 1. Admit you are doing it. Look at the thought and start to understand how much it interferes with your daily life. Think about when it pops up? Does this thought interrupt a party, distract you from a Netflix show or keep you up at night? Does it...

Jaimy Blazynski
February 4, 2020
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How To Repel Unhealthy People

There are many people in the world including myself who have successfully learned how to repel unhealthy people and attract wonderful new people. If one person can do this anyone can. The key is to uncover what strategies and resources worked for them and embrace them. That is exactly what I will offer you in this blog. If you believe you have the power to change the people you bring into your life keep reading… Step 1. Be completely honest with yourself. This may sound simple. In fact, you may be shaking your head up and down and convincing yourself that you already do this. But let’s go back to your last unhealthy relationship. If I were to ask you why the relationship ended what would you share? Many would begin telling me about the ex. Perhaps she was crazy, he was narcissistic, they cheated, etc…Now stop for a moment and...

Jaimy Blazynski
October 31, 2019
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Ladies Who Make the Most Matches Speed Dating

[vc_row animate_rounded_tab="yes"][vc_column][vc_column_text] After a night of speed dating everyone heads home and awaits the email that will deliver the results of the night. Typically ladies will be happy to see they made one or two mutual matches. But there are always a few ladies who seem to capture the interest of the entire room. And it goes beyond genetics! Of course physical attraction needs to be there but I can assure you the most gorgeous woman in the room is not always the one making the most matches. I am not discrediting the importance of looking your best! Below are the things that go beyond physical because there is truly more to consider. Let me tell you about the lady who does the best! She pops! We know men are visual and want to feel that chemistry the moment they look at a woman. But this isn’t entirely about the physical shell...

Jaimy Blazynski
October 24, 2019
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Guys Who Make the Most Matches

[vc_row animate_rounded_tab="yes"][vc_column][vc_column_text] I have been watching singles speed date for 14 years. I have talked to thousands of female speed daters about what made them check yes. Most men walk away with one or two mutual matches. Which is actually fantastic given it only takes about an hour. But there are always a few guys who seem to capture the interest of the entire room. And it is rarely the man with the best genetics. Let me tell you about this popular guy! He entered the room with a smile. Most ladies are a little nervous when they arrive. And that guy in the crowd wearing a genuine smile is where they gravitate to. He has cultivated a positive feeling before anyone has even sat down to speed date. He made his date laugh. She then associates time with him as being fun. I recently had a speed dater who tripped and...

Jaimy Blazynski
October 16, 2019
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You Are More Than Your Biggest Issue

It is not about when you share it is about how you share! We all have things that are wonderful about our lives. Things we are excited to share with our new date. We also have the things that might be perceived as a challenge. These are the things that we fear our date might reject! Many people have asked me how and when to share these things…When to share about their physical health issues, mental health issues, challenging child, recovery, unstable ex, financial issues, medication, past drama, etc…My answer is always the same! It is not when but how you share it. I can demonstrate this best by sharing one of my potentially perceived challenges. The illness is real. The actual date scenarios are just examples of how I might handle it. But as many of you know I am married and did not discover this health issue until many years...

Jaimy Blazynski
June 24, 2019
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Who Will Succeed on the Facebook Dating Platform?

If you meet the below criteria the likelihood of you finding love on the facebook dating platform will only improve. You are a single person that understands that the military, widowed, doctor posing for a picture with his stethoscope is nothing but a scam. The flawless, gorgeous woman with perfect cleavage who lives 500 miles away is fake. If you are still having trouble spotting a fake profile just never send money to anyone.   You are a single person who is willing to admit that you are doing something wrong in the dating arena. Are you too clingy, emotionally guarded, having sex too soon, annoying or not at your physical best? Be honest with yourself, figure it out and fix it. And if you are one of those complaining that these are all hook up sites you might want to take a look at your profile, the messages being sent...

Jaimy Blazynski
May 2, 2018
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Datingadvice.com

Date Doctor Jaimy shares about her childhood, marriages and how she transformed her love life. You can also catch the 1 thing her clients absolutely need in order to make these changes in their own lives. Click here to read the article....

Jaimy Blazynski
December 12, 2017
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My Thanksgiving Date

The first Thanksgiving after my divorce was a tough one. Here I was with a 2 year old little boy and everything around us was closed. I could see neighbors climbing into their cars with pies and packages in their hands as they headed to see loved ones. This was painful for me to watch. My mother died a few year earlier, my dad remarried and moved south with his new wife and my sister was with her in-laws who apparently passed judgement on my recent divorce. I was lucky enough to have an invite to a friend's house later that evening but passing the time until 6:oo PM seemed endless. I remember taking my little 2 year old son to Blockbuster because it was the only place opened. It was actually quite crowded, My son loved to look at all the movie covers and I was interested in watching all the...

Jaimy Blazynski
November 22, 2017
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Today’s Tips! All About Match

When writing that initial message on match don't over think it! There is no need to rewrite your profile or start sharing all of the things you have in common. It is boring and it is not a natural way to start a conversation. Imagine you are on an airplane and the person next to you looks cute and single. What might you say? Usually something quick. Likely you will ask them where they are headed and hope this leads to a bigger conversation. If they have a book you might ask about the book they are reading and see where that takes you. Think of online dating in the same way. Ask something light and friendly and generate an organic, fun, natural discussion. If they mention they love sushi ask them if they ever tried Siam Cuisine. If they state in their profile that they enjoy Netflix binging ask them if...

Jaimy Blazynski
April 27, 2017
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The Bottom Line on Who Pays

Men-If you ask her out you should pay. If you don’t know her well (met online) it is perfectly acceptable to meet for coffee or one drink. You are not expected to buy someone you don’t know a meal. It is appropriate in 2017 to have a first date be a coffee date. If a woman is offended by this I suggest you move on and see that you dodged a bullet. Ladies-You should always offer to pay your half. It is a gesture that shows him that you do not expect him to pay. It shows that you respect him and yourself enough to make the effort. When he declines your half of the money simply say thank you. Men-If you like her after the coffee date invite her to dinner and you need to pay for the dinner. You are in the courting stages and should be...

Jaimy Blazynski
March 5, 2017
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Clueless to Couple

Thankfully, an ex boyfriend saw how much of a mess I was in my dating life and gave Jaimy, The Date Doctor my phone number at a networking event. I had no idea who she was or what her job entailed when she called me. After agreeing to meet with her and discuss my past dating rituals, I knew Jaimy was introduced to me for a reason. She has the best advice at the best times, but I didn't always follow it as I should. She watched me make mistake after mistake with different guys, over and over. She never judged me and just coached me through it. Finally, I decided to trust Jaimy and begin following her rules. She has tried to guide me for months now and she was able to see that I was ready to do this right. Soon after she texted me saying she met THE guy...

Jaimy Blazynski
January 16, 2017
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Why I Want Nothing Valentines Day

Many years ago when I worked for the state I was in the lunch room with two co coworkers on Valentines Day. They were raving about the roses, jewelry and candy they received from a boyfriend they complained about the rest of the year. I was happy for them and joked about getting just a card (I still have the card). Within weeks they were both cheated on and dumped and I was engaged. I didn't care or need the the gifts because I knew how my boyfriend felt about me everyday. Being acknowledged on Valentines Day is sweet. Sure we all love a thoughtful gift. But remember that the size of the gift doesn't represent the love they feel. In fact I have found the opposite. Sometimes those big gift givers are overcompensating for many other things lacking in the relationship. There certainly are exceptions and we all know those...

Jaimy Blazynski
January 10, 2017
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