You Are More Than Your Biggest Issue

It is not about when you share it is about how you share! We all have things that are wonderful about our lives. Things we are excited to share with our new date. We also have the things that might be perceived as a challenge. These are the things that we fear our date might reject! Many people have asked me how and when to share these things…When to share about their physical health issues, mental health issues, challenging child, recovery, unstable ex, financial issues, medication, past drama, etc…My answer is always the same! It is not when but how you share it. I can demonstrate this best by sharing one of my potentially perceived challenges. The illness is real. The actual date scenarios are just examples of how I might handle it. But as many of you know I am married and did not discover this health issue until many years...

Date Em or Ditch Em Season 2 Episode 6

Erik shares his thoughts on the new rendition of It's Cold Outside. Jaimy and Erik talk about those who want to quit dating, celebrating holidays and they share a great gift idea for the man in your life....

Date Em or Ditch Em Season 2 Episode 4

Jaimy and Erik discuss how being insecure about your body makes you far less attractive than your actual flaws. They offer advice to a woman whose ex wants to keep a secret friendship with her. They help a woman trying to "get to the bottom" of why her relationship ended....

Date Em or Ditch Em Season 2 Episode 3

Should she send him a bikini selfie when they haven't even met yet? Is it because he is 5'4" or is it because he is insecure? Jaimy gives advice on how to pick up a date at the grocery store. \Erik sings his favorite go to karaoke song!...

Date em or Ditch em Season 2 Episode 2

In this episode Erik shares what having sex too soon really says about women. Jaimy offers match makeover tips to Mike whose profile was previously written by match. Plus Barbara gets some tips on how to find out where she stands in a relationship without asking. ...

Date ’em or Ditch ’em Season 2 Episode 1

After a 6 month hiatus Jaimy and Erik bring in season 2 with questions from the Facebook page. Join the group and ask your questions at. https://www.facebook.com/groups/datedoc/ Is it a red flag if your boyfriend doesn't want you to meet his kids? Should she be worried that they are not spending Thanksgiving together? And why you should never say "Yes Dear". Tune into to hear what Jaimy, The Date Doctor and her husband Erik have to say. For a coaching session visit https://got5minutes.com, text Jaimy at 860-324-6679 ...

Who Will Succeed on the Facebook Dating Platform?

If you meet the below criteria the likelihood of you finding love on the facebook dating platform will only improve. You are a single person that understands that the military, widowed, doctor posing for a picture with his stethoscope is nothing but a scam. The flawless, gorgeous woman with perfect cleavage who lives 500 miles away is fake. If you are still having trouble spotting a fake profile just never send money to anyone.   You are a single person who is willing to admit that you are doing something wrong in the dating arena. Are you too clingy, emotionally guarded, having sex too soon, annoying or not at your physical best? Be honest with yourself, figure it out and fix it. And if you are one of those complaining that these are all hook up sites you might want to take a look at your profile, the messages being sent...