How To Repel Unhealthy People

There are many people in the world including myself who have successfully learned how to repel unhealthy people and attract wonderful new people. If one person can do this anyone can. The key is to uncover what strategies and resources worked for them and embrace them. That is exactly what I will offer you in this blog. If you believe you have the power to change the people you bring into your life keep reading… Step 1. Be completely honest with yourself. This may sound simple. In fact, you may be shaking your head up and down and convincing yourself that you already do this. But let’s go back to your last unhealthy relationship. If I were to ask you why the relationship ended what would you share? Many would begin telling me about the ex. Perhaps she was crazy, he was narcissistic, they cheated, etc…Now stop for a moment and...

Ladies Who Make the Most Matches Speed Dating

[vc_row animate_rounded_tab="yes"][vc_column][vc_column_text] After a night of speed dating everyone heads home and awaits the email that will deliver the results of the night. Typically ladies will be happy to see they made one or two mutual matches. But there are always a few ladies who seem to capture the interest of the entire room. And it goes beyond genetics! Of course physical attraction needs to be there but I can assure you the most gorgeous woman in the room is not always the one making the most matches. I am not discrediting the importance of looking your best! Below are the things that go beyond physical because there is truly more to consider. Let me tell you about the lady who does the best! She pops! We know men are visual and want to feel that chemistry the moment they look at a woman. But this isn’t entirely about the physical shell...

Guys Who Make the Most Matches

[vc_row animate_rounded_tab="yes"][vc_column][vc_column_text] I have been watching singles speed date for 14 years. I have talked to thousands of female speed daters about what made them check yes. Most men walk away with one or two mutual matches. Which is actually fantastic given it only takes about an hour. But there are always a few guys who seem to capture the interest of the entire room. And it is rarely the man with the best genetics. Let me tell you about this popular guy! He entered the room with a smile. Most ladies are a little nervous when they arrive. And that guy in the crowd wearing a genuine smile is where they gravitate to. He has cultivated a positive feeling before anyone has even sat down to speed date. He made his date laugh. She then associates time with him as being fun. I recently had a speed dater who tripped and...

You Are More Than Your Biggest Issue

It is not about when you share it is about how you share! We all have things that are wonderful about our lives. Things we are excited to share with our new date. We also have the things that might be perceived as a challenge. These are the things that we fear our date might reject! Many people have asked me how and when to share these things…When to share about their physical health issues, mental health issues, challenging child, recovery, unstable ex, financial issues, medication, past drama, etc…My answer is always the same! It is not when but how you share it. I can demonstrate this best by sharing one of my potentially perceived challenges. The illness is real. The actual date scenarios are just examples of how I might handle it. But as many of you know I am married and did not discover this health issue until many years...

Date Em or Ditch Em Season 2 Episode 6

Erik shares his thoughts on the new rendition of It's Cold Outside. Jaimy and Erik talk about those who want to quit dating, celebrating holidays and they share a great gift idea for the man in your life....

Date Em or Ditch Em Season 2 Episode 4

Jaimy and Erik discuss how being insecure about your body makes you far less attractive than your actual flaws. They offer advice to a woman whose ex wants to keep a secret friendship with her. They help a woman trying to "get to the bottom" of why her relationship ended....

Date Em or Ditch Em Season 2 Episode 3

Should she send him a bikini selfie when they haven't even met yet? Is it because he is 5'4" or is it because he is insecure? Jaimy gives advice on how to pick up a date at the grocery store. \Erik sings his favorite go to karaoke song!...

Date em or Ditch em Season 2 Episode 2

In this episode Erik shares what having sex too soon really says about women. Jaimy offers match makeover tips to Mike whose profile was previously written by match. Plus Barbara gets some tips on how to find out where she stands in a relationship without asking. ...



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