Do Bitchy Women Get Better Gifts On Valentines Day?

Feb 6, 2012

Most women who are in crappy, loveless, or emotionally neglecting relationships want the traditional hallmark holiday Valentine’s Day gifts! And truth is these husbands usually comply. They understand that their workaholic habits, secret infidelity or inability to meet their wives emotional needs can be  a lot to take. They may feel some hidden guilt or perhaps just find it easier to drop $365 on a Pandora bracelet than to listen to her nag about what they didn’t do! The sad part is that these women know they are guilt gifts yet still require and almost demand that they get them year after year. It never quite fixes the deeper wound the relationship is experiencing but it sure does provide some instant gratification.

Women who are in happier relationships require a lot less. You see these women get love and affection on a daily basis. They feel special most of the time and although walking in the door to some beautiful flowers on the kitchen table would brighten their day, there are no demands from this girl. There is no nagging and no deeper wounds to be covered up. In fact she is the type of woman that has no problem buying her own flowers if she so desires.

Newly dating couples have a whole different story. Let’s face it if you start dating someone in December it can be a little tricky. You have to get through the winter holidays and before you know it Valentines Day is here! Most men agree they don’t want anything! But making them a nice meal, wearing a sexy nightie under your clothes or giving them a massage could make it special. But guys, if you are newly dating a woman who has been single for many Valentines Days, you have got to go out on a limb and make her feel special. Whether you frame a special picture of the two of you, buy a cute children’s book about Valentines Day and paste some of your own photos in the book or send her flowers… it is really a safe bet! A please don’t think that doing this on the first Valentines Day sets a precedent for years to come. Because I can assure you that if your relationship is strong she won’t need those guilt gifts year after year.

In my opinion…the less she nags, complains and demands the more she deserves. But this doesn’t mean that it has to happen on Valentines Day. Make her feel special every day!

Episode 60 – Women That Hop in the Sack too Quickly

Jan 23, 2012

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Doug-Hi Jaimy your book helped me get back with a girl i went out few years ago. took some of your advice in a few chapters of the book and it helped me a lot. We would not be together today if not for the book Crush!! Thanks Doug

Barbara Greenberg from http://www.talkingteenage.com calls to talk about teen dating.

Amy-Is it possible to fall in love again with someone you lost that loving feeling for? What do you think???

Maria-I’ve always been attracted to men in uniform; does anybody know where can I meet one? Lol

Stacey- What to do with guys that are 3000 miles away.

Jason posted this comment to my blog about jumping into bed too soon…

Jess-if a girl is dating someone can she have guy friends that she talks to/hangs out with on a regular basis? Or is it considered disrespectful?

Russell-question for the ladies. have gone on couple dates with someone, first date was told we were going as friends. second dinner was better, fun and joking. third was told would be as friends and my question is: is this normal for someone who has been hurt in the past to stay at a distance and not let others in?

Question of the Week-..Ever date someone where you couldn’t stand their kids or even their pets? Anyone confront it? get past it? or was it a deal breaker?

jess-my boyfriend is a very indecisive person and im wondering if this is going to effect us in the long run… or am i being crazy? About his job, where to eat, everything…

Steve-Hello ladies after breaking up with my ex because of a mistake I made I told her I wanted her back. She is now seeing someone else but she said if they break up “we’ll see about going back out” What does that mean is it a code or what.

High Sex Drive? Jumping in to Bed too Soon?

Jan 20, 2012

I hear it all the time! Women are becoming more and more aggressive sexually and more often than not men are getting turned off! This doesn’t necessarily mean that they are so turned off that they kick you out of bed…But they are typically turned off enough that they don’t call you back the next day. I understand that sex feels great and you deserve to have it and enjoy every minute of it! So if all you want is a roll in the hay then no need to read on. But if you are actually seeking a long term relationship where sex is one of the many benefits then you need to hold off for just a minute. Try some of these tips on those first few dates and you will be just fine!

1. Where the Granny Panties! The one sure way you won’t let a guy in your pants is if you are wearing those terribly unsexy panties known as Granny Panties. Now in most cases you really should not even own a pair but they have a lot of value in ensuring you go home alone on that first date.
2. Although Granny Panties should do the trick why not play it extra safe and don’t shave your legs and armpits that day. And don’t try to outsmart me on this one and throw a razor in your purse. Go out feeling a little hairy and unkempt and I can assure you that going home alone is the only option.
3. Another good idea is not to change the kitty litter. Sorry ladies but new studies show that almost all of you have cats. I know there is the option to go back to his house too. But if your house is off limits because you know that it stinks of your cat than the likelihood of bringing him home decreases dramatically.

Sex is hot but I can assure you that sex with a man you are in love with, a man you trust and a man you can lower your inhibitions with is even hotter. Get through those first few dates and connect with your new love interest on a deeper level first! You will never have to do the walk of shame again! And in the long run you will feel much better in so many ways.

Episode 58 – Women with insatiable sex drive!

Jan 16, 2012

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What do you think are there more happily married or miserably trapped couples in the world?

Becca-Well maybe you should discuss  of why the hell do women reach their sexual prime in their late 20′s and 30′s and men in their late teens!!?? This just doesn’t sync up appropriately.
http://www.yourtango.com/experts/dr–trina-read/expert-when-do-women-reach-their-sexual-peak

Lisa-I hear everyone say you have to work hard at marriage? Tell us how hard do the two of you work?

Angela-ok…i hav heard if you love sumone set them free..if they come back to u they’re yours…is that true?????

What do you think about this story Erik- http://www.nationalledger.com/pop-culture-news/celebrity-marriage-bryan-ferry-214447.shtml

Tashia-Hey all, if a single coworker asks you out for drinks would you automatically assume that they’re interested? Would you go? Would you feel a need to check with HR before doing so?

Wade-I was not born in America and find many are turned off by my accent. And I have even tried to use some dating companies and have been turned away. What are your thought son this Date Doctor?

Would you rather date a pot smoker or a drinker?

Becca-You’re on a date. The infamous, “what are you looking for?” question rolls off the tip of your date’s tongue. You respond by saying…

Question of the Week…Is a little jealousy ok? Is it cute or automatically a red flag? Are you the jealous type? Ever date the jealous type

Do You Run Here Often?

Jan 4, 2012

So you are on the treadmill and someone very cute hops on the bike right beside you. Do you say hello? Or just stay continue reading your magazine with your head set on?

So many people have made that popular resolution to hit the gym more and get back in shape. It is the perfect resolution for someone who is single! First of all looking and feeling your best will always make you more desirable in the dating arena. But it is also a terrific place  to find that perfect connection. I know many are thinking it sounds great in theory but how do you actually initiate a discussion with someone at the gym? I just happen to have a few great tips for you today!

1. First you have to get off the couch and go to the gym!

2. Look cute but not like you are trying to look cute. In other words don’t wear heavy make up, perfume and have your hair done perfectly. But at the same time wearing an over-sized t-shirt and grubby sweats will never work. Invest in some cute workout clothes, a good pair of sneakers and put your hair in a fun pony tail or head band. You are at the gym and really should look the part.

3. Remember that you are not the only one on the planet that is single at the gym. So many people I talk to are looking just like you. And if you happen to accidentally talk with someone who is married don’t sweat it (pun intended). Married people still like to chat and if they sense you are flirting they will likely just be flattered. Trust me this has happened to me quite a few times

4. Technology is making people less approachable more and more each day. If you are listening to your ipod use ear buds and only have one in. This way if someone walks up to speak to you, you will hear what they are saying. It is far less intimidating and awkward to approach someone that might actually hear you.

5. Pay attention to the obvious signs. If a guy jumps on the treadmill next you and all the other treadmills in the area are empty than he is hoping to have a conversation with you. Jump on the opportunity and say hello!

6. Wear a t-shirt or hat that will work as a conversation piece. I always have my clients wear one of our Date Doctor t-shirts because I get so many comments when I wear mine! Also anything with a favorite sports team will work. A great way to start a conversation is by saying “a Red Sox fan?”

7. If you are bringing a book or magazine have something eye catching. Someone on the treadmill next you just might comment on the cover of the book if it looks entertaining. This can lead you into a book discussion. Might I suggest Crush, http://www.amazon.com/Crush-Lessons-learned-through-lifetime/dp/1463586345/ref=sr_1_2?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1325685435&sr=1-2

8. I want to share a quick story that actually happened to me. I was on the treadmill and my keys fell to the ground. They were not in the way and no one was going to trip over them so I left them. Personally I did not want to interrupt my work out. Moments later a very cute guy was walking by and he picked up my keys and handed them to me. I thanked him and joked about why I left them there. He smiled and then asked about my Date Doctor t-shirt. For me this was great for marketing as I gave the guy my business card and he ended up coming to a speed dating event. For my single friends this is a great strategy for meeting singles at the gym. Always a good idea to have your business cards handy whether you are looking for business or love!

9. Just remember attitude is everything! If you are confident and believe you will find true love in 2012 then you will certainly increase your chances of doing this.

10. And lets face it, having a great body will help a bit too. Physical attraction is important and you deserve to look and feel your best!